Advice Needed! Bullies Are Taking My Son’s Allowances and Lunch Boxes

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a young boy who is studying in primary school. Lately, my son reluctantly shared that his friends have been taking the food from his lunch box and even his daily allowances.

My son is too afraid to speak up about it, and he worries that if I intervene, it will only cause more problems for him at school. I am at a loss for what to do.

How can I protect my son without making things worse for him?

Sincerely,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

It’s understandable that you are worried about your son’s well-being at school. It’s important to address this issue in a way that doesn’t make things more difficult for him. Here are a few steps you can take to support your son:

First, have an open and honest conversation with your son. Let him know that you are there to support him and that it’s okay to speak up about what’s happening at school. Encourage him to confide in a teacher or school counselor about the situation.

Next, consider reaching out to the school to discuss the issue. You can express your concerns and work with the school staff to find a solution that ensures your son’s safety and well-being.

Additionally, you can pack lunch in a way that makes it less accessible for others to take from his lunch box, such as using a lunch bag that can be securely closed.

Finally, remind your son that it’s okay to stand up for himself and seek help from trusted adults when needed. Building his confidence and resilience will help him navigate these challenges.

Remember, your son’s well-being is the top priority, and addressing this issue proactively can help create a safer and more supportive environment for him at school.

Best wishes,
Agony Aunt