Advice Needed: My daughter is obsessed with TikTok and concerned that it will be banned in Singapore

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to seek your advice on a matter that has been causing me great distress. My 15-year-old daughter has become completely obsessed with TikTok, spending hours on end creating and watching videos on the app.

While I understand that it can be a form of creative expression and entertainment, I am deeply worried about the recent news that TikTok may be banned in USA and the same thing might happen in Singapore due to security concerns. My daughter is already anxious about the potential ban, and I fear that it is affecting her mental well-being.

She has been expressing her concerns about losing her connection to friends and the creative outlet that TikTok provides. I want to support her, but I also worry about the negative impact of spending so much time on social media.

I feel at a loss about how to handle this situation and would greatly appreciate any advice you can offer.

Sincerely,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

It is understandable that you are feeling distressed about your daughter’s obsession with TikTok and the potential ban in the USA. It’s commendable that you are seeking guidance on how to navigate this challenging situation.

First and foremost, it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your daughter about her use of TikTok and the potential consequences of a ban. Encourage her to express her feelings and concerns, and try to understand why the app holds such significance for her. This will help you gain insight into her perspective and allow you to provide support accordingly.

In addition, consider setting boundaries around screen time and social media usage. Encourage your daughter to explore other hobbies and activities that can provide a sense of fulfillment and connection outside of TikTok. This could be an opportunity for her to discover new interests and talents.

Lastly, stay informed about the latest developments regarding the potential ban in the USA and reassure your daughter that there are alternative ways to stay connected with friends and express creativity, even if TikTok is no longer available.

Remember that your support and understanding are crucial during this challenging time. By approaching the situation with empathy and open communication, you can help your daughter navigate her emotions and adapt to potential changes.

Best wishes,
Agony Aunt