Concerned Mother: Daughter’s music band CCA is taking up too much time. No time for schoolwork and revisions.

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a teenage girl who is currently studying in secondary school. I am writing to seek your advice on a matter that has been causing me great concern.

My daughter has always been passionate about music, and I have always encouraged her to pursue her interests. However, recently she has become extremely involved in her co-curricular activity (CCA) which is the school’s music band. The band practices almost every day after school and often she returns home quite late. I am worried that this is taking a toll on her academic performance as she has very little time left for homework and revisions. I have tried talking to her about balancing her commitments, but she seems to be very dedicated to the band and is unwilling to compromise.

I am at a loss about how to handle this situation. I want to support her passion for music, but I also want to ensure that she is able to excel in her studies. I would greatly appreciate any advice or guidance you can offer on how to approach this delicate matter.

Thank you for your time and consideration.

Sincerely,
A Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

Thank you for reaching out to me with your concerns about your daughter’s involvement in the school’s music band. It’s clear that you care deeply about her well-being and academic success, and I commend you for seeking guidance on this matter.

It’s understandable that you are worried about the impact of her extensive band commitments on her academic performance. Balancing extracurricular activities with schoolwork can be challenging for many students, and it’s important to find a healthy equilibrium.

I would suggest having an open and honest conversation with your daughter about the importance of maintaining a balance between her passion for music and her academic responsibilities. Encourage her to prioritize her schoolwork and allocate specific time for homework and revisions, while also allowing her to continue pursuing her musical interests.

Additionally, consider speaking with the school authorities or the band instructor to discuss the practice schedule and explore the possibility of adjusting it to allow more time for academic commitments. It’s crucial to ensure that your daughter’s passion for music does not come at the expense of her academic success.

Ultimately, finding a compromise that allows your daughter to pursue her musical interests while also excelling in her studies will require open communication and understanding from all parties involved. I hope these suggestions provide you with a starting point for addressing this issue with your daughter.

Best of luck, and I hope that you and your daughter are able to find a solution that works for both her passion for music and her academic pursuits.

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt