Concerned Mother: Help! My Son is Still Secretly Wearing Diapers in Primary School

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a seven-year-old son who is currently studying in primary one. I am writing to seek your advice on a concerning issue.

My son is still secretly wearing diapers to school, and I am worried about the impact it may have on his social and emotional well-being.

Over the years, my husband and I have been so caught up with work that we neglected to properly toilet train him, and now it seems to have become a habit for him.

I feel guilty for not addressing this issue sooner, and I am at a loss on how to approach this delicate situation. Please help.

Sincerely,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

Firstly, please don’t be too hard on yourself. Parenting can be challenging, and it’s common to face hurdles along the way. It’s commendable that you are seeking help now to address the situation.

To start with, I would suggest having an open and honest conversation with your son. Approach the topic with understanding and reassurance that you are there to support him. Create a positive and encouraging environment for him to feel comfortable discussing his feelings and any potential reasons behind his behavior.

Additionally, consider involving his teacher or school counselor in the conversation. They may be able to provide guidance and support in a school setting. Seeking professional advice from a child psychologist or pediatrician could also offer valuable insights into any underlying issues your son may be experiencing.

In terms of toilet training, it’s not too late to start. Set a consistent routine at home and offer positive reinforcement for any progress. Encouraging independence and praising small achievements can boost your son’s confidence.

Remember, patience and understanding are key in addressing this matter. Your son needs your love and support, and together, you can work through this challenging period.

I hope these suggestions provide some guidance, and please don’t hesitate to reach out if you need further assistance.

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt