Concerned Mother: My Primary School Daughter is Obsessed with Make Up
Dear Agony Aunt,
I am a mother of an 8-year-old girl who has recently become obsessed with makeup. It seems like all she talks about is getting her hands on a makeup set and trying out different looks. I’m really concerned about this, as I feel she is too young to be getting involved with makeup.
I don’t want her to grow up too fast and start worrying about her appearance at such a young age.
How can I handle this situation and help my daughter understand that she doesn’t need makeup to be beautiful?
Sincerely,
Concerned Mother
Dear Concerned Mother,
It’s completely understandable that you are worried about your daughter’s sudden interest in makeup at such a young age. It’s important to address this issue with sensitivity and open communication. Firstly, it’s crucial to have a conversation with your daughter about why she feels the need to use makeup at her age. Listen to her reasons and try to understand her perspective without dismissing her feelings.
Next, it’s important to educate her about the purpose of makeup and its appropriate usage. Emphasize the importance of self-confidence and inner beauty, and explain that makeup should be used as a form of self-expression rather than a tool to cover up insecurities.
You can also set boundaries by allowing her to experiment with age-appropriate makeup, such as lip gloss or light, natural colors, under your supervision. This way, she can satisfy her curiosity without feeling the need to rush into using heavy makeup.
Lastly, encourage her to focus on her talents, hobbies, and personal development rather than solely on her appearance. Help her build a strong sense of self-worth and confidence that isn’t reliant on external factors like makeup.
Remember, this is a delicate situation that requires patience and understanding. By addressing your daughter’s interest in makeup with empathy and guidance, you can help her navigate this phase in a healthy and positive way.
Best of luck,
Agony Aunt