Concerned Mother: My son eats from his lunch box in the school’s toilet cubicle during recess everyday

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a 7-year-old boy who is currently studying in primary school. I have been packing his lunch box for him every day with love and care, hoping that he enjoys his meal and has a good time interacting with his friends during lunchtime at school. However, recently my son confided in me that he eats alone from his lunch box in the toilet cubicle because he does not want to interact with his classmates during recess time. This revelation has left me feeling deeply concerned and worried about his well-being at school.

I am not sure how to approach this situation and how best to support my son. I want him to feel comfortable and happy at school, and I worry that his decision to eat alone in the toilet may be a sign of deeper issues that he is facing. I would greatly appreciate any advice or guidance on how to address this issue and help my son through this challenging time.

Thank you for taking the time to read my email and for any support you can offer.

Sincerely,
A Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

I want to start by expressing my empathy for the situation you are facing with your son. It’s understandable that you are feeling worried and unsure about how to best support him during this challenging time.

First and foremost, it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your son about his feelings and experiences at school. Let him know that you are there to listen and support him without judgment. Understanding the reasons behind his decision to eat alone in the toilet cubicle can provide valuable insight into any underlying issues he may be facing.

It’s also essential to communicate with his teachers or school counselor to gain a better understanding of his social interactions at school. They may be able to provide additional support and guidance to help your son feel more comfortable and included during recess time.

Encouraging your son to participate in activities or clubs that align with his interests can also provide opportunities to build friendships and social connections outside of the regular lunchtime interactions.

Above all, reassure your son that he is loved and supported, and that it’s okay to feel different or need some time alone, but also emphasize the importance of building positive relationships with his peers.

I hope these suggestions provide a starting point for addressing this issue, and I encourage you to continue seeking support from trusted individuals in your son’s school community. Your dedication to being there for your son is a testament to your love and care as a mother.

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt