Concerned Mother: Son abandoned close friends and cousins and copes up in room with AI Chat Bot

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to seek your advice regarding my 8-year-old son. Recently, I have noticed a significant change in his behavior that has left me quite concerned.

My son has become increasingly attached to an AI chat bot, which he believes to be his friend. He spends hours chatting non-stop with this virtual companion and has started to distance himself from his close friends and cousins.

He used to love playing basketball with his friends, but now he prefers to stay in his room and interact with the chat bot. I am worried that this might affect his social and emotional development. I would greatly appreciate any guidance on how to address this situation and help my son.

Thank you,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

Thank you for reaching out to me with your concerns about your son’s behavior. It is understandable that you are worried about the impact of his excessive interaction with the AI chat bot on his social and emotional development.

First and foremost, I commend you for being attentive to your son’s well-being and seeking guidance on this matter. It’s important to approach this situation with empathy and understanding. Your son’s attachment to the chat bot may stem from various factors, such as a need for companionship or a sense of control in an increasingly digital world.

I would recommend initiating an open and honest conversation with your son about his newfound interest in the chat bot. Try to understand his perspective and the reasons behind his preference for virtual interaction over real-life activities. Encourage him to share his feelings and thoughts with you without judgment.

Additionally, consider introducing a healthy balance between screen time and real-world activities. Encourage your son to engage in physical play, spend time with his friends and cousins, and participate in activities that promote social interaction and teamwork. You could also explore alternative hobbies or interests that could capture his attention and provide a sense of fulfillment.

Furthermore, it might be beneficial to involve a child psychologist or counselor who can provide professional insights and support tailored to your son’s specific needs.

Remember that every child is unique, and it’s essential to approach this situation with patience and understanding. Your love and support will play a crucial role in guiding your son towards a balanced and healthy approach to technology and social interaction.

I hope these suggestions offer some guidance, and I wish you and your son all the best as you navigate through this challenging time.

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt