Concerned Mother: Son always falls asleep when reading book

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am quite worried about my son, who is in primary school. He is a bright child with a vivid imagination, but I’ve noticed that he struggles to complete a storybook on his own.

I’ve tried encouraging him to read more, but he often loses interest and falls asleep after just a few pages. I want him to develop a love for reading, but I’m not sure how to motivate him without making it feel like a chore.

I’ve considered reading together, but I’m worried that he might become too reliant on me. I want him to feel confident in his abilities. Do you have any advice on how I can help him improve his reading skills and foster a love for books?

Thank you for your guidance.

Warm regards,
A Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your concerns about your son. It’s clear that you care deeply about his development, and that’s a wonderful foundation for nurturing his love for reading.

First, it’s important to remember that every child develops at their own pace. Some children may take longer to engage with reading, and that’s perfectly normal. Here are a few suggestions that might help:

1. Create a Reading Routine: Establish a specific time each day dedicated to reading. This could be right before bedtime or after school. Consistency can help him associate reading with comfort and relaxation.
2. Choose Engaging Material: Sometimes, the right book can make all the difference. Let him explore different genres and topics to find what truly captivates him. Graphic novels, comic books, or interactive storybooks can be great starting points.
3. Read Aloud Together: While you mentioned concerns about him relying on you, reading aloud together can be a bonding experience. It allows you to model fluency and expression, and he may feel more encouraged to read on his own afterward.
4. Incorporate Fun Activities: Consider turning reading into a game. You could create a reading chart with rewards for completing books or set up a cozy reading nook with his favorite snacks and a comfy blanket.
5. Be Patient and Supportive: Celebrate his efforts, no matter how small. Acknowledging his progress can boost his confidence and motivation.
6. Talk About Stories: After reading, discuss the story with him. Ask open-ended questions about the characters and plot. This can help him engage with the material and develop comprehension skills.

Remember, fostering a love for reading is a journey, and it’s wonderful that you’re taking an active role in supporting him. With time, patience, and a little creativity, he may surprise you with his progress.

Wishing you both the best on this reading adventure!

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt