Concerned Mother: Son keeps shouting and plays games the entire day

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a teenage boy who is currently studying in secondary school. Lately, I have been facing a challenging situation with my son.

He has started raising his voice and shouting at me for no reason. It seems like all he wants to do is play video games all day long.

I am worried about his behavior and how it is affecting our relationship. I don’t know how to handle this situation and would greatly appreciate your advice on how to address this issue with my son.

Thank you,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

I am sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing with your son. It can be tough to navigate such behavior, especially when it affects your relationship with him. It sounds like your son may be struggling with managing his emotions and finding a balance between his studies and leisure activities.

I recommend having an open and honest conversation with your son about how his behavior is impacting you and your relationship. Try to understand the underlying reasons for his outbursts and excessive gaming. Encourage him to express his feelings and concerns while also setting boundaries and expectations regarding his behavior at home.

Additionally, consider setting limits on his screen time and encouraging him to engage in other activities that promote a healthy lifestyle and social interactions. Seeking the support of a counselor or therapist may also be beneficial in helping your son address any underlying issues contributing to his behavior.

Remember to approach the situation with empathy and patience, as it may take time for your son to adjust and make positive changes. Stay supportive and communicate openly with him to work through this challenging phase together.

Best of luck,
Agony Aunt