Concerned Mother: Son thinks formal education is a waste of time
Dear Agony Aunt,
I am writing to seek your advice regarding my teenage son who is currently studying in secondary school. Lately, he has been expressing strong opinions about the education system, claiming that school is useless and a waste of time. He firmly believes that he can learn programming skills from the internet and start his own business, earning money earlier than going through traditional education.
As a mother, I am torn between supporting his ambitions and worrying about his future. I want him to pursue his passions, but I also understand the value of a formal education. I fear that he may be making a hasty decision that could affect his long-term prospects. How can I guide him in making the right choices without stifling his dreams?
Thank you for your time and advice.
Warm regards,
Concerned Mother
Dear Concerned Mother,
Thank you for reaching out with your concerns about your son’s future aspirations. It is understandable that you are torn between supporting his ambitions and ensuring he has a solid foundation for success. Finding a balance between these two can be challenging, but it is essential for his growth and development.
It is commendable that your son is passionate about programming and entrepreneurship. These are valuable skills in today’s digital age. However, it is crucial to emphasize the importance of a well-rounded education that can provide him with critical thinking skills, social interactions, and a broader perspective on the world.
I suggest having an open and honest conversation with your son about his goals and how he plans to achieve them. Encourage him to pursue his interests in programming while also emphasizing the value of completing his education. Perhaps you can explore options for him to enhance his skills outside of school, such as online courses or extracurricular activities.
Ultimately, it is essential to support and guide your son while allowing him the freedom to explore his passions. By providing a balance of encouragement and practical advice, you can help him make informed decisions about his future.
I hope this advice helps, and I wish you and your son all the best on this journey.
Warm regards,
Agony Aunt