Concerned Mother: Son’s classmates keep taking away his belongings and not returning it

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to you because I am feeling very worried about my son who is studying in primary school. Recently, I found out that his classmates have been taking away the things that he bought from the school’s bookshop.

My son has been coming home upset and feeling helpless because he keeps losing his belongings. I am not sure how to address this issue and I am concerned about the impact it may have on his well-being and confidence at school.

I would greatly appreciate any advice or guidance you can offer to help me support my son in this situation.

Thank you,
A Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

I can understand your distress about the situation your son is facing at school. It’s important to address this issue in a way that supports and empowers your son. Firstly, I would recommend having an open and honest conversation with your son about what has been happening. Encourage him to speak up and express his feelings, and assure him that you are there to support him.

Next, it may be beneficial to have a discussion with his teacher or school administration about the incidents. They may be able to implement measures to prevent further occurrences and provide support to your son. Additionally, consider helping your son label or mark his belongings to make them easily identifiable.

It’s also important to help your son build resilience and confidence. Encourage him to stand up for himself and seek help from a trusted adult if he encounters any more issues. Lastly, remind him that his worth is not determined by material possessions and that he should focus on building positive relationships with his peers.

I hope these suggestions help in addressing the situation. Remember to provide your son with the love and support he needs during this challenging time.

Best wishes,
Agony Aunt