Help! My Son Cannot Focus And Keeps Fidgeting
Dear Agony Aunt,
I am writing to seek your advice on a matter that has been causing me great concern. My son, who is in primary school, seems to be struggling with focusing on his studies, particularly in math.
I have tried to sit down with him and help him with his math homework, but I have noticed that he cannot seem to concentrate at all. He fidgets constantly, talks about unrelated issues at school, and appears to be easily distracted.
I am worried that this may be affecting his academic performance and his overall well-being. I am not sure what to do or how to help him.
Any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
A Concerned Mother
Dear Concerned Mother,
It sounds like you are facing a challenging situation with your son’s difficulty in focusing on his studies, particularly in math. It’s understandable that you are worried about his academic performance and well-being. It’s important to address this issue early on to provide the support and guidance your son needs.
First and foremost, I would recommend speaking with your son’s teacher to gain a better understanding of his behavior and performance in the classroom. The teacher may have valuable insights and observations that could shed light on the situation. Additionally, consider consulting with a pediatrician or child psychologist to assess whether there may be underlying issues such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) or other learning difficulties.
In the meantime, there are some strategies you can try at home to help your son improve his focus. Establishing a consistent routine, providing a quiet and organized study environment, and breaking tasks into smaller, manageable chunks can all be helpful. Encouraging physical activity and regular breaks during study sessions may also help your son release excess energy and improve his ability to concentrate.
Above all, it’s important to approach this situation with patience, understanding, and support for your son. Let him know that you are there to help him and that you believe in his ability to succeed. With the right guidance and support, your son can overcome these challenges and thrive academically.
Best of luck,
Agony Aunt