Help! My Son Is Spending So Much of My Money To Buy Virtual Currency for In-Game Upgrades and Digital Assets
Dear Agony Aunt,
I am a mother of a 9-year-old boy who is currently studying in primary school. Recently, I discovered that my son has been using my online account to purchase a significant amount of Robux, a virtual currency used in the popular game Roblox.
He has been using this currency to buy virtual clothing and upgrades for his in-game character. I am extremely upset and concerned about this behavior.
I understand that Roblox is a popular game among kids, but I never expected my son to use my account without permission and spend real money on virtual items.
I am at a loss about how to approach this situation and would appreciate any advice you can offer.
Sincerely,
Worried Mother
Dear Worried Mother,
I understand your distress upon discovering that your son has been using your online account to make unauthorized purchases of Robux for the game Roblox. It’s natural to feel upset and concerned about this behavior, especially when it involves spending real money without permission.
First and foremost, it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your son about the situation. Approach the topic calmly and try to understand his perspective. It’s possible that he may not fully comprehend the implications of using real money for virtual purchases. Use this as an opportunity to educate him about responsible spending and the value of money.
Setting clear boundaries and consequences for his actions is crucial. Consider implementing restrictions on online purchases and reinforcing the importance of seeking permission before using your account for any transactions. Additionally, you may want to explore the option of setting up parental controls or passwords to prevent unauthorized access to your online accounts.
Furthermore, it could be beneficial to encourage your son to earn Robux through in-game activities or by completing tasks as a way to instill a sense of responsibility and value for the virtual currency.
Lastly, consider reaching out to the Roblox support team to inquire about any potential refund options for the unauthorized purchases made on your account. They may be able to provide assistance in resolving this matter.
Remember, communication and understanding are key in addressing this issue. By approaching the situation with empathy and clear boundaries, you can guide your son towards making more informed decisions regarding virtual currency and online spending.
Best of luck,
Agony Aunt