Help! My Son Lies On Sofa And Reads Comics The Entire Day Without Speaking To Anyone

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to seek your advice regarding my son’s behavior. He is 14 years old and has always been a bright and energetic boy. However, recently I have noticed a significant change in his behavior. Whenever he comes home from school, he lies on the sofa the entire day, completely engrossed in reading comic books. He hardly speaks to anyone and seems to be avoiding any form of interaction.

I am worried that this obsession with comic books is affecting his studies and social life. I have tried talking to him about it, but he brushes it off saying that it’s just a hobby. I don’t want to push him too hard, but I am concerned about his well-being and his future. I feel lost as to how to approach this situation and what steps I should take to help him.

I would greatly appreciate any advice or guidance you can offer to help me understand and support my son during this challenging time.

Sincerely,
Worried Mom

Dear Worried Mom,

It is understandable that you are concerned about your son’s sudden change in behavior, especially if it seems to be affecting his studies and social life. It’s important to approach this situation with patience and understanding, as it could be a phase that he is going through.

Firstly, it’s essential to have an open and honest conversation with your son about your concerns. Express your worries in a calm and non-confrontational manner, and try to understand his perspective as well. It’s possible that he is using comic books as a form of escape or relaxation, but it’s important to help him find a balance with other activities and responsibilities.

Encourage him to pursue other hobbies or interests that can help him develop socially and academically. Perhaps you can suggest activities that he used to enjoy or new ones that he might be interested in exploring. Additionally, setting boundaries around his comic book reading time and encouraging him to engage in family activities can also help him find a healthy balance.

If you feel that his behavior is impacting his studies significantly, it may be beneficial to seek guidance from his school counselor or a child psychologist. They can provide professional advice and support to help your son navigate through this phase and address any underlying issues that may be contributing to his behavior.

Above all, reassure your son that you are there to support and guide him through this challenging time. With patience, understanding, and open communication, you can help him find a healthy balance between his interests and responsibilities.

Best wishes,
Agony Aunt