Worried Mother: Daughter is failing at school and I am so tired to send her to school everyday

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to you because I am feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. I am a single mother working long hours to provide for my family, and my daughter is currently studying in secondary school. Lately, I have noticed that my daughter’s academic performance has been declining. She seems disinterested in her studies and is not putting in the effort required to succeed.

I am at my wits’ end trying to juggle work, household responsibilities, and ensuring my daughter attends school regularly. I feel so tired and drained from the daily grind, and the thought of continuing to send my daughter to school feels like an impossible task. I am worried about her future and feel like I am failing as a mother.

Please help me, Agony Aunt. I don’t know what to do.

Sincerely,
A Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

I want to start by acknowledging the immense pressure and challenges you are facing as a single mother working tirelessly to support your family. It is clear that you care deeply for your daughter’s well-being and future, and your concerns are valid.

It is understandable that you are feeling overwhelmed and exhausted, but I urge you not to make any hasty decisions regarding your daughter’s education. Your daughter’s academic performance may be a reflection of various factors, including the current circumstances at home and school.

I recommend having an open and honest conversation with your daughter to understand what may be causing her disinterest in school. Encourage her to express her feelings and concerns, and offer your support and guidance. Consider reaching out to her teachers or school counselor for additional insight and assistance.

Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Seek help from friends, family, or support groups to share the burden and find solutions together. Taking care of yourself is equally important, so don’t hesitate to prioritize your well-being and seek moments of rest and relaxation.

You are doing your best, and that is commendable. Stay strong, stay positive, and remember that there is always hope for a brighter future.

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt