Worried Mother: Son refuses to share what happened in school and forges our signatures

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a young boy who is currently studying in primary school. I have been feeling increasingly worried about my son’s behavior.

He seems to keep everything that happens at school under wraps and doesn’t share much with us, his parents. Recently, I made a shocking discovery that has left me deeply concerned. I found out that he has been forging our signatures on all his tests and assignments.

This has left me feeling lost and unsure of how to handle the situation. I want to help my son but I’m not sure how to approach him about this. I would greatly appreciate any advice or guidance you could offer.

Sincerely,
A Worried Mother

Dear Worried Mother,

I can understand how distressing and concerning it must be to discover that your son has been forging signatures on his schoolwork. It’s natural to feel lost and unsure of how to address this situation. The first step is to have an open and honest conversation with your son. Approach the discussion with empathy and understanding, and try to create a safe space for him to share his thoughts and feelings.

Express your concern about the forgery and let him know that you are there to support him. It’s important to understand the underlying reasons for his behavior. Perhaps he is struggling with the workload, feeling pressure to perform, or dealing with other challenges at school. Encourage him to be truthful and assure him that you are there to help him through any difficulties he may be facing.

Additionally, consider reaching out to his teachers or school counselor to gain insight into his behavior at school. They may be able to provide valuable information and support in addressing the situation.

Above all, remember that your son needs understanding and guidance. By approaching the issue with patience and compassion, you can work together to find a solution and help him navigate through this challenging time.

Wishing you strength and wisdom as you support your son.

Warm regards,
Agony Aunt