Worried Mother: Son says school is not important because he aspires to be live stream gamer

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am a mother of a 10-year-old boy who is currently studying in primary school. Lately, I have been feeling extremely worried about his attitude towards education. My son seems to be disinterested in his studies and is constantly talking about becoming a live streaming gamer when he grows up.

While I understand that gaming is a popular hobby, I am concerned that he is not taking his education seriously. I have tried talking to him about the importance of schooling, but he doesn’t seem to understand. I am at a loss about how to guide him in the right direction. I would greatly appreciate any advice you could offer on how to handle this situation.

Sincerely,
Worried Mother

Dear Worried Mother,

I understand your concerns about your son’s disinterest in his studies and his strong desire to become a live streaming gamer. It can be challenging to see our children not prioritizing their education, especially at such a young age. However, there are a few things you can consider to help guide your son in the right direction.

Firstly, it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your son about his aspirations. Try to understand his passion for gaming and acknowledge his interests. This will help you build a stronger connection with him and gain insight into his motivations.

Secondly, you can encourage him to strike a balance between his passion for gaming and his academic responsibilities. Help him understand that education can provide a strong foundation for his future, and that pursuing his passion for gaming can be a hobby alongside his studies.

Additionally, you may want to explore educational resources related to gaming, such as coding or game design courses, to show him how his interest in gaming can be linked to educational and career opportunities.

Lastly, consider seeking guidance from his teachers or school counselors to understand his academic performance and explore any additional support he may need to thrive in his studies.

Remember, it’s important to support and guide your son while also allowing him to explore his interests. With patience and understanding, you can help him find a balance between his passion for gaming and the importance of education.

Best of luck,
Agony Aunt