Worried Mother: Son starting swimming lesson with primary school and Mum wants to follow
Dear Agony Aunt,
I am writing to you because I am feeling very worried about my son. He is currently studying in primary school and his school has started swimming lessons for the students in a public pool. The problem is that my son doesn’t know how to swim, and I am concerned about his safety.
The school has informed us that parents are not allowed to follow the swimming lessons, and this has left me feeling very anxious.
I am considering going to a nearby estate to peer over the swimming pool to keep an eye on my son, but I am not sure if this is a good idea. I would really appreciate your advice on this matter.
Sincerely,
Worried Mother
Dear Worried Mother,
I understand your concerns about your son’s safety during his swimming lessons at the public pool. It is natural for any parent to worry about their child’s well-being, especially when it comes to activities like swimming. However, I would advise against going to a nearby estate to peer over the swimming pool to keep an eye on your son.
While your intentions are undoubtedly coming from a place of love and concern, it is important to respect the school’s rules and regulations regarding parental involvement in the swimming lessons. Instead of trying to observe from a distance, I would recommend having an open and honest conversation with the school about your concerns. You can inquire about the safety measures in place during the swimming lessons and express your worries about your son’s lack of swimming skills.
Additionally, you could consider enrolling your son in swimming lessons outside of school to ensure that he receives proper instruction and supervision in a controlled environment. This way, you can take an active role in ensuring your son’s safety while also respecting the school’s policies.
It is crucial to find a balance between being a concerned parent and respecting the boundaries set by the school. By communicating your concerns effectively and exploring alternative options for your son’s swimming education, you can ensure that he receives the necessary support and supervision while learning this important life skill.
Best regards,
Agony Aunt