Worried Mother: Spouse Wants Son To Walk Home From School By Himself

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to you because I am feeling quite anxious about a situation with my son. He is in primary school and has always been used to me bringing him to and from school.

However, my spouse believes it’s time for him to start walking home by himself. While I understand the importance of fostering independence, I am worried about his safety. He has never had to navigate traffic lights or busy roads on his own, and I fear that he could get himself into trouble.

How can I approach this situation without causing conflict with my spouse, while still ensuring my son’s safety?

Sincerely,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

It’s understandable that you are feeling anxious about this transition for your son. It’s natural to want to protect and ensure the safety of our children, especially when it comes to navigating potentially dangerous situations like traffic. It’s important to have a conversation with your spouse about your concerns and find a middle ground that takes into consideration both your son’s safety and his growing need for independence.

One approach could be to gradually introduce your son to the concept of using traffic lights and safely crossing roads. You could start by walking with him and teaching him how to wait for the traffic light to change, look both ways before crossing, and the importance of staying on the sidewalk. By gradually empowering him with the knowledge and skills to navigate these situations, you can help ease your own worries and build his confidence in handling these responsibilities.

Additionally, it might be beneficial to explore alternative routes that are less busy or have designated crossing guards to ensure your son’s safety as he begins to make the journey home on his own.

Remember, open communication with your spouse and finding a compromise that prioritizes your son’s safety while fostering independence are key in addressing this concern.

Best wishes,
Agony Aunt