Need Help With My Son’s Obsession With Live Streaming Video Games

Dear Agony Aunt,

I am writing to seek your advice on a matter that has been causing me great concern. My 16-year-old son has developed an intense obsession with playing video games and doing live streaming of his gaming sessions. It has reached a point where he spends almost all of his free time in front of the computer, neglecting his studies, household responsibilities, and even his health. He seems to be more invested in building his online gaming persona than in real-life interactions with family and friends. I am worried about the impact this may have on his future and his well-being.

I have tried talking to him about finding a balance between his gaming hobbies and other aspects of his life, but he dismisses my concerns and insists that he can handle it. I am at a loss and don’t know how to help him snap out of this obsession. I want what’s best for my son, and I fear that his current path may lead to serious consequences. Any advice you can offer would be greatly appreciated.

Sincerely,
Concerned Mother

Dear Concerned Mother,

Your worries about your son’s obsession with video games and live streaming are understandable, and it’s commendable that you are seeking ways to support him. The first step in addressing this issue is to have an open and empathetic conversation with your son. Express your concerns about the impact of his excessive gaming on his studies, health, and relationships, and encourage him to share his perspective as well.

It’s important to establish clear boundaries and limits regarding his gaming and streaming activities. Encourage him to allocate specific times for gaming and to prioritize his responsibilities and well-being. Consider involving him in activities outside of gaming that could help him develop new interests and social connections.

Seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor who specializes in adolescent behavior and gaming addiction may also be beneficial. They can provide guidance on how to effectively communicate with your son and offer strategies to help him manage his gaming habits in a healthy way.

Lastly, remember to show your unconditional love and support for your son, even as you set boundaries. Building a positive and trusting relationship with him will be essential in helping him navigate through this challenging phase.

It may take time and patience, but with understanding, communication, and a supportive approach, there is hope for your son to find a healthier balance between his gaming passion and other aspects of his life.

Best wishes,
Agony Aunt